If you are single and thinking of
marriage, then please don’t marry
anyone who puts passwords or locks on
their phone as a form of security to
prevent you from accessing their
conversations.
They can surely do this for other security
measures, but you must not be the
reason for this action.
I am very much aware that passwords or
lock are for security purposes but one
thing I don’t approve of is when a
spouse becomes the reason for that
security measure.
There is nothing like secrecy or privacy
in marriage, let no one deceive you there
is, and let no one tell you he or she is
doing that to save you from getting hurt.
Marriage is a holy institution, there is
nothing like hiding. Marriage is made
for life and one of the very things that
can destroy it is acts of hiding things.
The bible says in Genesis 2:25 (TLB)
“Now although the man and his wife
were both naked, neither of them was
embarrassed or ashamed”. What are you
embarrassed or ashamed of your spouse
seeing? If you can’t be truthful, honest
and transparent with them, then there is
no need getting married to them. It
doesn’t matter how you feel about them.
Mark 10:8 (NLV) says “The two will
become one. So they are no longer two,
but one”. I therefore suggest to you, if he
or she is hiding things from you, it
simply means they don’t want to become
one with you. Such a marriage won’t last.
Please share with your friends, someone
out there needs this.
– Counselor Adofoli
Well said or Saying trash?
